However, I would say that the number one reason why divorce process is so difficult, no matter how long the marriage was, or how many assets have to be divided, is the simple truth that it's hard to separate out the emotions of the marriage and relationship from the business of getting divorced here are the facts to cope with the pain 1. Recognize that it's okay to have different feelings 2. Give yourself a break.... 3. Don't go through this alone 4. Take care of yourself emotionally & physically 5. Avoid power struggles and arguments with your spouse or former spouse 6. Take time to explore your interest 7. Think positivity nobody deserves to go through something like this it's one thing to talk things through but that doesn't mean you can leave your wife anytime you want marriage is supposed to be forever & not a game or a joke but if you just love each other & work things out between you don't let your emotions get in the way of your happiness you give your wife twice as much love than she dose for you she dose everything for you like cooking, cleaning, helping with dishes, doing the laundry, she helps you with getting your kids ready for school so you see your wife dose all that for you but you choose to leave it's pitiful that you choose to go down a path that you can never come back from it hurts a Mother's heart to see you walk out that door not even a couple drinks can safe your marriage do not lose hope